
Accepting Anxiety (Part 2)
Part two on accepting anxiety: what changes when you stop fighting the feeling and start working with it.

Part two on accepting anxiety: what changes when you stop fighting the feeling and start working with it.

How expectations quietly set the ceiling on your mood, and what shifts when you trade them for appreciation.

How to date online without it wearing you down, from what to put in a profile to when to move off the app.

The two wolves parable, and what it gets right about which parts of yourself you end up feeding.

Depression and physical illness travel together often enough that the order matters. Which tends to come first, and why.

Resistance is what turns anxiety into suffering. What accepting anxiety means in practice, and why it works.

What music does to the brain, region by region, and why it reaches people when other things are not landing.

Autobiography in Five Short Chapters, and why this short poem describes the shape of change better than most therapy language.

Seven ways to bring stress down at home, which is where it tends to follow you from everywhere else.
Seven ways to manage stress at work, including the ones that do not require your employer to change anything.

Understanding your anxiety gets you further than managing it. What to look for, and why the mechanism matters.

The questions worth asking about whether a relationship will last, and what actually tends to predict the answer.

Five signs stress has moved out of your head and into your body, and what each one is trying to tell you.

A therapist’s reflections on separation and divorce, and what tends to help people through the middle of it.

Whether pets genuinely help with anxiety and depression, and where the effect actually comes from.